Selfish Unselfishness

This is a pet saying of mine. This describes my volunteering and what Kandi has become. A very selfish unselfish lady.

I am a selfish SOB. I want to be happy. I want to have fun. I want to look pretty. I want to be loved. I want to be accepted. I want to be the best husband. I want to be an even better father. I want to be popular. I want to be at ease. I want to experience new things. I want to laugh. I want to love. I want to be loved. I want to smile all day, every day. I want to be admired. I want to be valued. I want to mean something. I want to win the race, not just run well. I want to make a difference. I want to excel. I want to beat your behind competitively. I want to win. I want to be the best. I want to be noticed. I want that moment when you know that dress is…….you! I want that feeling when you achieve something you never thought possible. I want to be appreciated.

But I get much more satisfaction from others. I want my family to be comfortable. I want my family and friends to be happy. I want to see you smile. I want to get that hug, that meaningful hug. I want to help others, even if it only means I make them smile for that moment. I want my chosen charities to thrive, succeed. I want us all to just get along. I want us all to remember, we are all different. I want you to love whoever you want. I want you to have someone to love. I want you to have a job. I want you to achieve the long lost American dream. I want you to help me preach my gospel.

I have had drinks purchased for me. I have had total strangers walk up and ask to give me a hug. I have been complemented thousands of times. I have had meals paid for. I have felt like a million dollars. I have been truly blessed, but not without my share of life’s challenges.

None of this matters if we don’t learn to accept each others differences and just love each other. Be selfishly unselfish. Give and take. Love and accept love. Move society forward.

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