By Sherry Greer
On Monday, October 14th I had another session with my gender specialist. A few days prior I called a friend and we met for brunch at a local restaurant. It’s amazing the confidence that is gained every time I go out. I just love the process that occurs going from my male self to Sherry, it’s like the ugly caterpillar turning into the beautiful butterfly! I feel my makeup application is getting better, I love matching my eye shadow with the color of my top! At the restaurant the two of us sat there for about 2 hours talking like two women would, it was wonderful and felt natural. I spoke about my sessions and how my wife and I need to figure out what the parameters are when dealing with Sherry. She talked about her role that is becoming second nature and how her and her boyfriend want to sell their houses and move in together. She also talked somewhat about her sexuality and how it is different from the female perspective. That was a new experience for me, hearing the emotional connection to the sexual experience. As we left the restaurant we chatted the entire time and hugged in the parking lot as we said our goodbyes. For the next few hours I went shopping, my goal was to find a pair of black booties to go along with the brown pair I already own. Unfortunately, I was unsuccessful but did buy a cute yellow spring top on clearance at JCPenney! As I was looking I also found a beautiful blue dress that I bought for my cisgender friend who went to the fashion show with me.
It was time for my gender specialist appointment. I parked in the adjoining parking garage to the building and walked down the sidewalk and around the front of the building. It was a beautiful day with a slight breeze and it was wonderful having my hair blow in the wind. As I entered the office another therapist was in the lobby and I said hello to her before having a seat. Ellen came out a few minutes later and invited me into her office. We talked about boundaries and how my male self and Sherry can coexist to both of our (wife and I ) liking. That is not an easy undertaking and I know it will take time to figure out. Two things I really want is to have: my own closet space for my clothes and go to the Erie Gala in Pennsylvania which is happening just before Thanksgiving. We also talked about my increased confidence and how that helps my overall deportment and mindset. I know this will take time to figure out but it is much more healthier than the dark and self-destructive place I used to be at.
More tomorrow…..
from Kandi's Land https://kandis328772669.wordpress.com/2019/10/30/brunch-and-more-part-1/
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