Linda Asks: What Can Kandi Do?

Now where were we…….

I guess you could do regular work as Kandi since you are able to commit to volunteer schedules?  You got some interesting suggestions of what you might do.  If you did though, being Kandi would then become more ordinary?  Does Kandi do the chores, clean the house, do the shopping?  Would Kandi be happy just doing everyday things, no hugs, no compliments but just as a woman?

First off, I really don’t commit to volunteer schedules, I commit to volunteer events. Generally one-time events, even though some happen regularly. No, becoming Kandi would not become ordinary if indeed I was able to find work as her. Remember, I currently go out dressed on average three times a week. If I found work, it would most likely not be as often as that, so it really wouldn’t be that different except that there would be a paycheck forthcoming.

Does Kandi do chores, clean the house, do the shopping? No. Remember, I am not a home dresser. For me, being completely dressed at home (which includes makeup, shoes, purse, etc.) hold no interest. I frankly would be paranoid someone would knock on the door. Plus, I am not Kandi, she is simply a part of me (we can argue that point all you want). Now I do cook dinner, do the shopping, take on tasks around the house, have a job, maintain the yard and all that entails, but I have less that zero interest in doing those things dressed. For every single one of my readers this is something different, either by choice or by circumstance. My friend and frequent commenter Pat has talked here about dressing and being the “second wife”. She frequently cooks dinner dressed. That works for her. Not for me. We are the epitome of “different strokes for different folks”.

To answer the final question, I am not a woman. I do not wish to become one. But I do like feeling like one, being thought of as one. Being treated as one. I love all the trappings. But I do also enjoy taking it all of, cleaning up and getting back to me, my wife’s husband. No, at this point in time, being Kandi without the general public acceptance wouldn’t be all that interesting. But since I have only been Kandi for about five years and this is what I have evolved into, I don’t know any other way. What this is has changed dramatically each and every year that goes by. I am always seeking a new experience, a new way of expressing all of this, a new and different mans of expressing who and what Kandi is.

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